Let's Talk About Love
For all its fluffy, gushy hoopla, Valentine’s Day is a significant day. Sure, the card/flowers/candy companies have inflated it more than a little, but Valentine’s Day is not merely sentimental. If you’re like me, the day is a mile marker of sorts. When I look back on Valentine’s Day five, ten, or twenty years ago, it’s interesting to reflect on what it meant to me at different stages of my life.
Eight years ago, for example, I sat in a swanky restaurant with a man I had only just met. I thought he was crazy to ask me out so soon—on Valentine’s Day, no less!—but ten months later we would be engaged. Valentine’s Day is now our “first date anniversary.”
Fifteen years ago I was a sophomore in college, and very single. Both of my roommates had serious boyfriends, so they were out having a romantic evening. My night, on the other hand, involved some form of wallowing.
Twenty-five years ago, I was a fourth grader. That year, I wrapped a shoe box in red heart wrapping paper, dotted it with more heart stickers, and cut a hole in the top. I then assembled twenty-four Bugs Bunny Valentine’s cards for the annual card and candy exchange. Back then, I wasn’t concerned about finding a boyfriend so much as gathering a stockpile of candy.
The personal significance of Valentine’s Day changes over the years, and for kids it’s usually quite simple: Valentine’s Day is fun. However, as our kids grow older and Valentine’s Day begins to MEAN something, that significance is accompanied by cultural messages about “love.” As a parent, I want to be a part of that learning process.
In our culture, “romantic love” has a rather self-centered bent to it. Romantic love is supposed to complete us. Marital love is supposed to make us happy. “Love” and “self-fulfillment” are nearly one in the same. In fact, our culture (through books, movies, reality television and more) implies that without romantic love we are somehow incomplete (thank you, Jerry Maguire). In a desperate effort to fill that void, people often justify personal compromise and bad decision-making. Alternatively, “love” can also carry less weight than it should, with people demonstrating flippant relationships like one-night stands and “friends with benefits.”
Before my kids absorb those distorted messages about romantic love, I want to counter those messages with truth, and Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity for those conversations. So, as Valentine’s Day approaches, here are some fun topics for conversation that can help your kids develop a more Christ-like understanding of love. These questions are appropriate for different ages, and they are only the tip of the iceberg, but hopefully they can inspire you, and your family, to go a little deeper with Valentine’s Day:
• Besides romantic love, what other kinds of love are there?
• Is romantic love the most important kind of love? Why or why not?
• In what ways does God show His love for us (1 John 3:16)?
• How can we show our love for God?
• The Bible says to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31). How can you love your friends, or your siblings, as yourself?
• Jesus also teaches us to love our enemies (Matthew 5:44)? Who are the hard people in your life, and how do you think you can love them?
• The Bible says it is not enough to love people with our words, but to SHOW them our love (1 John 3:18). Why do think your actions are more powerful than your words?
In John 13:35, Jesus reminds the disciples that they will be known by their love. In a world of conditional love, cheap love and self-centered love, it’s never too early to start teaching our kids about Jesus’ “different kind of love.” And more importantly, it’s never too late to talk about God’s love for us, and how to bear witness to it. God’s love is a whole lot harder, and much more self-sacrificing, than mushy Valentine’s Day love, but it’s also the only kind of love that is perfect, the only kind of love we were fundamentally created for, and the only kind of love that will actually fulfill us.
I want my kids to know that truth, on Valentine’s Day, and every day.
Sharon Hodde Miller is a writer, speaker, pastor's wife, and mom. She is a regular contributor to Her.meneutics, and has also written for Propel, (in)courage, Relevant, Gifted for Leadership, The Gospel Project, and Christianity Today. To read more of her writing, visit her blog at SheWorships.com.
Comments
Am testifying of the miraculous work of a great traditional doctor called Dr Ahonsie. I have been suffering from herpes since last 2 years with my Husband but today I am happy that am cure from it with the herbal medicine made by Dr Ahonsie the great healer, I was browsing the Internet searching for help when I came across a testimony shared by someone on how Dr Ahonsie cure her from Herpes Disease. I quickly contacted him to get the cure and today I am now free from the Virus
his Email: drahonsie00@gmail.com
WhatsApp: +2348039482367
https://drahonsie002.wixsite.com/dr-ahonsie
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
BEST BITCOIN RECOVERY EXPERT THE HACK ANGELS
Contact THE HACK ANGELS. If you have lost money to scam. There are a lot of untrue recommendations and it’s hard to tell who is legit. But I am sure of THE HACK ANGELS and the team they will surely help you out. Took me a long time to locate them. They approach each case with precision and adaptability, always focused on delivering results. If you are facing fraud, scams, or other crypto-related challenges, contact a professional like THE HACK ANGELS before the trial runs out. They help clients reclaim what is rightfully theirs. CONTACT INFORMATION VIA:
support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
They did more than retrieve my Bitcoin; they gave me back my future.
Three Cheers for Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech, Bitcoin Savior Extraordinaire
In the ever-evolving world of cryptocurrency, where volatility and uncertainty reign supreme, one individual has emerged as a beacon of hope and innovation – Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech, the self-proclaimed “Bitcoin Savior Extraordinaire.” This enigmatic figure, with his uncanny ability to navigate the complexities of the digital asset landscape, has captivated the attention of crypto enthusiasts and skeptics alike. Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech journey began as a humble programmer, tinkering with the underlying blockchain technology that powers Bitcoin. But it was his visionary approach and unwavering commitment to the cryptocurrency’s potential that propelled him into the limelight. Through a series of strategic investments, groundbreaking algorithmic trading strategies, and a knack for anticipating market shifts, Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech has managed to consistently outperform even the savviest of Wall Street traders. Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech ability to turn even the most tumultuous of Bitcoin price swings into opportunities for substantial gains has earned him the moniker “Wizard,” a testament to his unparalleled mastery of the digital currency realm. But Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech impact extends far beyond personal wealth accumulation – Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech has tirelessly advocated for the widespread adoption of Bitcoin, working tirelessly to educate the public, lobby policymakers, and collaborate with industry leaders to overcome the barriers that have long hindered the cryptocurrency’s mainstream acceptance. With infectious enthusiasm and boundless energy, Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech has become a true champion of the Bitcoin cause, inspiring a new generation of crypto enthusiasts to embrace the transformative power of this revolutionary technology. As the digital currency landscape continues to evolve, Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech name will undoubtedly be etched in the annals of cryptocurrency history as a visionary, a trailblazer, and, above all, the Bitcoin Savior Extraordinaire. To get your stolen bitcoin back, reach out to Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech via: Email : wizardhiltoncybertech ( @ ) gmail (. ) com
OR
support ( @ ) wizardhiltoncybertech (.) com
WhatsApp number +18737715701
Good Day.
I have be living with Oral herpes for over 4 years now and it has be a big problem for me. I have been looking for solution because I can’t leave with it, One day I came across a woman testimony on a forum saying she got cured of her Herpes with the help of Dr Akhimien an herbal doctor from African with herbal medicine. At first I did not believe because I was not sure herbs can really take this virus away, but I have no choice than to give it a try and contacted him with his emails, I explain my problems,.. then he told me not to worry that he will prepare the a cure with herbal mixture and send it to me, I got the medicine after 4 days delivery and I use as instructed. After 21 days when the herb was almost finished, I went to a medical doctor, I did a test and discovered that the virus was gone, and my test results were HSV 1%2 negative, I was so surprised and happy! Then I wrote to Dr Akhimien and thanked him for getting me cured from herpes. I advice you to contact this great herbal doctor Akhimien as he have cure for different kinds of diseases. I decided to share this testimony to let others who also suffer from herpes know about this and give hope to others, you can reach him via Email drakhiniemodion@gmail.com also his FB Page https://www.facebook.com/Drakhiniem/ or WhatsApp number +2349133157031
I URGENTLY NEED A LOVE SPELL CASTER TO HELP ME GET MY EX BACK CONTACT (DR DAVID) AWESOMESPELLTEMPLE@YAHOO.COM OR +2347051149457 I want to share my wonderful testimony how I got back my husband back, who I sworn ever to be with until when he left me to another woman for no reason and I try to make things work for both of us yet things were getting worse and I love him so much and there is nothing I could do to get my husband back until I saw a testimony share by a woman called Rachel from Florida on the internet talking about a powerful spell caster who brought her husband back within 24 hours and I decide to give it a try and to my greatest surprise he also did it for me just as he did for Rachel and I have a lot of people complaining of fake spell caster but this one I met was a real spell caster who help me to solve my problem I have no solution to, I introduce many of my best friends that have a similar problems, and their problem were solve with the great help of DR David, who help them to get back their lovers within 24 hours. I am so happy that my husband is back to me again, and the most surprising thing is that our love is very strong, every day is happiness and joy. and There is nothing like being with the man you love. I am so happy my love is back to me with the help of DR David . if you have similar problem I will advise you to contact him ,he is there to help you and put a smile on your face as he did to me and others you can also WhatsApp him +2347051149457 or Email him at :awesomenesspelltemple@gmail.com or view his website for more review: https://63e1caad0959a.site123.me/
How To Get Your Ex Lover/Partner/Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Wife Or Husband Back Contact Dr David Awesomespelltemple@yahoo.com or WhatsApp/Call Him +2347051149457
My husband changed dramatically towards me, doesn’t communicate anymore. He disrespects me and accuses me falsely of infidelity because of wicked gossip …but I’m simply AMAZED at the results of PRIEST AWESOME (AWESOME SPELL TEMPLE) who did a reunion love spell for me. Everything is going so well and EXACTLY how he said it would be. Even though it took 3 days to fully progress, it was so worth it because things are just about at perfection! How he took my situation and completely turned it around to give me exactly what I wanted is beyond me, but something I will never question and just be completely grateful for. God Bless Dr. DAVID for turning sorrow into happiness. You can also contact PRIEST AWESOME : give you 100% guarantee that he will help you.. https://web.facebook.com/Awesomelovepelltemple Email him: awesomenesspelltemple@gmail.com or WhatsApp him on +2347051149457
Website: https://63e1caad0959a.site123.me/
Today I can confirm that I have successfully recovered $260,870 Crypt0currency that was previously stolen by an investment fraudster. The recovery was achieved with the assistance of Brunoe and cooperation from law enforcement. I’m sharing this to thank those who helped and to urge others affected by scams to report incidents immediately and consult trusted recovery professionals. Protect your accounts, keep records of all transactions, and be cautious of unsolicited investment offers. services to anyone who has fallen victim to similar scams, Email: Brunoequickhack (AT) gmail.com
WhatsAPP +(1) 70578 – 42635
Today I can confirm that I have successfully recovered $260,870 Crypt0currency that was previously stolen by an investment fraudster. The recovery was achieved with the assistance of Brunoe and cooperation from law enforcement. I’m sharing this to thank those who helped and to urge others affected by scams to report incidents immediately and consult trusted recovery professionals. Protect your accounts, keep records of all transactions, and be cautious of unsolicited investment offers. services to anyone who has fallen victim to similar scams, Email: Brunoequickhack (AT) gmail.com
WhatsAPP +(1) 70578 – 42635