Let's Talk About Love

16-02-09-Lets-Talk-About-Love-FBFor all its fluffy, gushy hoopla, Valentine’s Day is a significant day. Sure, the card/flowers/candy companies have inflated it more than a little, but Valentine’s Day is not merely sentimental. If you’re like me, the day is a mile marker of sorts. When I look back on Valentine’s Day five, ten, or twenty years ago, it’s interesting to reflect on what it meant to me at different stages of my life.

Eight years ago, for example, I sat in a swanky restaurant with a man I had only just met. I thought he was crazy to ask me out so soon—on Valentine’s Day, no less!—but ten months later we would be engaged. Valentine’s Day is now our “first date anniversary.”

Fifteen years ago I was a sophomore in college, and very single. Both of my roommates had serious boyfriends, so they were out having a romantic evening. My night, on the other hand, involved some form of wallowing.

Twenty-five years ago, I was a fourth grader. That year, I wrapped a shoe box in red heart wrapping paper, dotted it with more heart stickers, and cut a hole in the top. I then assembled twenty-four Bugs Bunny Valentine’s cards for the annual card and candy exchange. Back then, I wasn’t concerned about finding a boyfriend so much as gathering a stockpile of candy.

The personal significance of Valentine’s Day changes over the years, and for kids it’s usually quite simple: Valentine’s Day is fun. However, as our kids grow older and Valentine’s Day begins to MEAN something, that significance is accompanied by cultural messages about “love.” As a parent, I want to be a part of that learning process.

In our culture, “romantic love” has a rather self-centered bent to it. Romantic love is supposed to complete us. Marital love is supposed to make us happy. “Love” and “self-fulfillment” are nearly one in the same. In fact, our culture (through books, movies, reality television and more) implies that without romantic love we are somehow incomplete (thank you, Jerry Maguire). In a desperate effort to fill that void, people often justify personal compromise and bad decision-making. Alternatively, “love” can also carry less weight than it should, with people demonstrating flippant relationships like one-night stands and “friends with benefits.”

Before my kids absorb those distorted messages about romantic love, I want to counter those messages with truth, and Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity for those conversations. So, as Valentine’s Day approaches, here are some fun topics for conversation that can help your kids develop a more Christ-like understanding of love. These questions are appropriate for different ages, and they are only the tip of the iceberg, but hopefully they can inspire you, and your family, to go a little deeper with Valentine’s Day:

• Besides romantic love, what other kinds of love are there?

• Is romantic love the most important kind of love? Why or why not?

• In what ways does God show His love for us (1 John 3:16)?

• How can we show our love for God?

• The Bible says to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31). How can you love your friends, or your siblings, as yourself?

• Jesus also teaches us to love our enemies (Matthew 5:44)? Who are the hard people in your life, and how do you think you can love them?

• The Bible says it is not enough to love people with our words, but to SHOW them our love (1 John 3:18). Why do think your actions are more powerful than your words?

In John 13:35, Jesus reminds the disciples that they will be known by their love. In a world of conditional love, cheap love and self-centered love, it’s never too early to start teaching our kids about Jesus’ “different kind of love.” And more importantly, it’s never too late to talk about God’s love for us, and how to bear witness to it. God’s love is a whole lot harder, and much more self-sacrificing, than mushy Valentine’s Day love, but it’s also the only kind of love that is perfect, the only kind of love we were fundamentally created for, and the only kind of love that will actually fulfill us.

I want my kids to know that truth, on Valentine’s Day, and every day.

 


Sharon Hodde Miller is a writer, speaker, pastor's wife, and mom. She is a regular contributor to Her.meneutics, and has also written for Propel, (in)courage, Relevant, Gifted for Leadership, The Gospel Project, and Christianity Today. To read more of her writing, visit her blog at SheWorships.com.

 

JT-blog-banner-2

Related Posts

Matt Clark

Comments

Matt Clark

My husband left i and our kids for almost a year because of another woman, and I wanted him back in my life I cried all day all night hoping he could come back to me himself, not untill I find this great spell caster called Dr osebor. What a miracle to have my husband back within 24hours after contacting Dr Osebor. If you need help in your marriage or love life you can contact Dr Osebor on his WhatsApp +2348073245515, or email ??Dr Osebor on oseborwinbacktemple@gmail.com ,

Matt Clark

I lost $600K investing in a dubious crypto investment company and I lost everything.
My name is Linda Boris, a real estate investor from North Dakota, I had invested in crypto last year and was hoping to make double my investment by the start of this new year until I realized I was being conned. It was devastating for me and my family, and if not for the intervention of Morphohack Cybersecurity Service, I wouldn’t have recovered my funds.
Morphohack is a top-notch cryptocurrency and data recovery company, that help its clients to retrieve crypto assets from hackers and fake investment brokers, I’m grateful for their service in helping me recover my $600k worth of crypto funds and I highly recommend their services, they can be trusted and are very reliable with a 100% success rate.

E-Mail: MORPHOHACK@cyberservices.com
Whats-App: (+1 2 1 3. 6 7 2. 4 0 9 2)
Web-Site: MORPHOHACK. wixsite. com/cyber

Matt Clark

I lost $600K investing in a dubious crypto investment company and I lost everything.
My name is Linda Boris, a real estate investor from North Dakota, I had invested in crypto last year and was hoping to make double my investment by the start of this new year until I realized I was being conned. It was devastating for me and my family, and if not for the intervention of Morphohack Cybersecurity Service, I wouldn’t have recovered my funds.
Morphohack is a top-notch cryptocurrency and data recovery company, that help its clients to retrieve crypto assets from hackers and fake investment brokers, I’m grateful for their service in helping me recover my $600k worth of crypto funds and I highly recommend their services, they can be trusted and are very reliable with a 100% success rate.

E-Mail: MORPHOHACK@cyberservices.com
Whats-App: (+1 2 1 3. 6 7 2. 4 0 9 2)
Web-Site: MORPHOHACK. wixsite. com/cyber

Matt Clark

My husband lost a staggering $37,000 in a forex trading scam, and for a while, we believed that our hard-earned funds were gone forever. This wasn’t just any money, it was the savings we had set aside for our honeymoon, a gift from family and friends after our recent marriage in 2025. We had carefully planned for our first vacation together, excited to start our new life as a couple. When the scam happened, it felt like our dreams were shattered, and we were left feeling devastated and helpless. Like many others who fall victim to such schemes, we spent countless hours searching for ways to recover our money, but everything seemed futile. After exhausting all options on our own, I decided to conduct more in-depth research on recovery services. Among the numerous options, one name consistently stood out: Folkwin Expert Recovery. They had a strong reputation for successfully recovering funds from scams, particularly those involving forex trading. Despite hearing of many similar services, something about Folkwin Expert Recovery gave me hope. Still, I was understandably skeptical. The idea of recovering lost money seemed like an impossible task. But after a detailed conversation with their team, and after explaining our situation in full, I felt a sense of renewed optimism. They assured me they could help, promising to investigate our case thoroughly and work toward recovering our funds within 24 to 72 hours. True to their word, Folkwin Expert Recovery acted swiftly. Their team worked diligently, reviewing all of the transaction details, communications with the scam broker, and any additional information we had. They kept us informed throughout the process, providing updates regularly, which helped alleviate some of the stress we were feeling. To our astonishment, within just 72 hours, Folkwin Expert Recovery
had successfully recovered $32,000 out of the $37,000 we had lost. The results exceeded our expectations, and we were overjoyed to have a significant portion of our funds returned. What truly impressed us was the transparency and dedication Folkwin Expert Recovery demonstrated. Not only did they recover a large portion of our lost funds, but they also restored our faith in the possibility of recovering money from such scams. We had almost given up hope, assuming that we would never see our vacation money again. But Folkwin Expert Recovery made the impossible possible. Their professionalism and commitment to their clients were evident at every step, and we couldn’t be more grateful. If you’ve fallen victim to a forex trading scam or any similar fraudulent investment schemes, I wholeheartedly recommend reaching out to Folkwinexpertrecovery(@)tech-center. c om OR WhatsApp +1 740-705-0711. Their team is experienced in recovering lost funds, and based on my experience, I’m confident they can help you as well. Don’t lose hope contact Folkwin Expert Recovery, and you may find yourself recovering your lost funds just as we did, restoring not just your finances but also your peace of mind.
Warm greetings,
Kristen Andrew.

Matt Clark

Not much services generally has actually seemed more satisfactory to me in recent times than the unmatched and professional services received from HACKER JUDAS RECOVERY when I contacted them following a friend’s recommendation regarding the 240,000 USD I had lost through some wrong Cryptocurrency investment scheme. I thought personally, and was also told by a few other friends nothing much could really be done before I wrote to them but still decided to give it a try just so I satisfy my doubts. Though way beyond my initial expectations, I got marvelled at the outcome as HACKER JUDAS RECOVERY was able to track and recover my lost money at the end of the process. I think they should be the best out there or at least one of the best, as I can testify to their topnotch services; and most importantly, highly recommend them to anyone battling same or related issues bordering lost of Cryptocurrency to contact them for assistance. HACKER JUDAS RECOVERY can be contacted via:

mail: hackerjudas9@gmail.com

+18075002291

Matt Clark

Scammers can take many different shapes, but their ultimate objective is to take your hard-earned money. My first error was assuming that investing in bitcoins would increase my income. I fell victim to an investment scam and lost $109,590 in bitcoins. A few weeks later, I was looking on the internet when I stumbled into a forum about RECOVERY NERD, a recovery specialist who claimed to be able to help me get my bitcoins back in a few days. After reaching out to them, RECOVERY NERD and his team were able to retrieve all of my missing bitcoins in less than 48 hours, despite my initial skepticism. When it comes to Bitcoin recovery, they are the greatest team. You should send an email to the hacker if you encounter a similar circumstance. Recoverynerd@mail.com

Matt Clark

For many people and businesses, navigating the frequently dangerous landscape of financial loss can be an intimidating and overwhelming process. Nevertheless, the knowledgeable staff at Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech provides a ray of hope and direction with their indispensable range of services. Their offerings are based on a profound grasp of the far-reaching and terrible effects that financial setbacks, whether they be the result of cyberattacks, data breaches, or other unforeseen tragedies, can have. Their highly-trained analysts work tirelessly to assess the scope of the damage, identifying the root causes and developing tailored strategies to mitigate the fallout. From recovering lost or corrupted data to restoring compromised systems and securing networks, Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech employs the latest cutting-edge technologies and industry best practices to help clients regain their financial footing. But their support goes beyond the technical realm, as their compassionate case managers provide a empathetic ear and practical advice to navigate the emotional and logistical challenges that often accompany financial upheaval. With a steadfast commitment to client success, Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech is a trusted partner in weathering the storm of financial loss, offering the essential services and peace of mind needed to emerge stronger and more resilient than before. Call; Email : wizardhiltoncybertech ( @ ) gmail (. ) com    
OR
support ( @ ) wizardhiltoncybertech (.) com

WhatsApp number +13024457895

Matt Clark

How can you recover your stolen crypto/btc assets?

Well, I thought it was impossible until I was able to recover my stolen crypto assets.
I fell victim to a crypto scam that saw me lose all my assets within a space of five days, I was catfished by a person who pretended to be a crypto trader and investor, after depositing close to a million dollars into this fake crypto exchange, it was impossible to withdraw my assets and all communication with this so-called trader was compromised. I felt like I was going to die until I saw an opportunity to recover my crypto assets with the services of Morphohack Cybersecurity, a crypto and data recovery company. I contacted them immediately, provided all my information, and in a few hours, morphohack was able to detect and trace my crypto assets, and recovered everything in less than 72 hours. I was in awe of how quick and easy it was, I can personally assure you all that Morphohack Cybersecurity is a team of relentless, reliable, and trustworthy crypto and data recovery experts. Your experience with them won’t differ. Contact them immediately
E-Mail: MorphoHack@cyberservices.com
Whats-App: (+1) 2 1 3. 6 7 2. 4 0 9 2
Web-Site: MORPHOHACK . WIXSITE . COM/CYBER

Matt Clark

How can you recover your stolen crypto/btc assets?

Well, I thought it was impossible until I was able to recover my stolen crypto assets.
I fell victim to a crypto scam that saw me lose all my assets within a space of five days, I was catfished by a person who pretended to be a crypto trader and investor, after depositing close to a million dollars into this fake crypto exchange, it was impossible to withdraw my assets and all communication with this so-called trader was compromised. I felt like I was going to die until I saw an opportunity to recover my crypto assets with the services of Morphohack Cybersecurity, a crypto and data recovery company. I contacted them immediately, provided all my information, and in a few hours, morphohack was able to detect and trace my crypto assets, and recovered everything in less than 72 hours. I was in awe of how quick and easy it was, I can personally assure you all that Morphohack Cybersecurity is a team of relentless, reliable, and trustworthy crypto and data recovery experts. Your experience with them won’t differ. Contact them immediately
E-Mail: MorphoHack@cyberservices.com
Whats-App: (+1) 2 1 3. 6 7 2. 4 0 9 2
Web-Site: MORPHOHACK . WIXSITE . COM/CYBER

Matt Clark

How i Finally Recover My Stolen Cryptocurrency With The Help Of Crypto Tech Recovery.
I couldn’t believe my luck when Crypto Tech Recovery managed to retrieve my lost Bitcoin. It was like finding a pot of gold at the end of a digital rainbow. Let me share my own harrowing experience with crypto theft. I recently found myself in the unfortunate position of losing $125,000 to a cunning hacker. It was a devastating blow to my savings and a wake-up call to the vulnerability of the digital world. The feeling of helplessness and anger was overwhelming, and I knew I needed to take action. Not only does cryptocurrency theft deplete our bank accounts, but it also negatively impacts our mental health. These kinds of situations can leave behind stress, worry, and annoyance long after the money has disappeared. We must come up with trustworthy and practical ways to take back what is truly ours. Thank you,
Crypto Tech Recovery for helping me take back my lost bitcoin. I am dearly appreciative of the way I was helped by you guys. contact Century Web Recovery to help you get your lost or stolen Cryptocurrency by emailing them or visit their website.
Crypto Tech Recovery can be reached Email: techcryptorecovery@yahoo.com

Matt Clark

HOW TO HIRE A HACKER TO RECOVER STOLEN BITCOIN. CONTACT CRYPTO TECH RECOVERY.

I became a victim of a Bitcoin scam and lost a significant amount of money. This incident happened a few weeks ago. The way I handled the situation and recovered my money was to reach out to the right recovery support team Crypto Tech Recovery, via an email on; ( techcryptorecovery @ YAHOO DOT COM), I was in complete despair. But I started to feel a little better about myself as soon as I wrote them an email. The good thing here is that I didn’t have to worry about anything during the process; all I had to do was wait for them to finish and return all my lost money to my wallet. I commend the whole process.

Matt Clark

HOW I RECOVERED MY $38,000 from coincrypto. tech

I’m forever grateful to Jetwebhackers for their remarkable assistance in recovering the $38,540 I had lost to a crypto scam. This amount was meant to cover my husband’s urgent hospital bills, and I was deceived by a fraudster posing as Agent David, who promised me a return of $380,940 – but it was all a scam. Thanks to Jetwebhackers’ expertise and dedication, I was able to recover not only the initial investment but also the profit I was promised. Their help has been a blessing to my family, and we can now focus on my husband’s recovery without financial stress. I highly recommend Jetwebhackers to anyone who has fallen victim to crypto scams. They are professional, efficient, and compassionate. Thank you, Jetwebhackers, for your exceptional service and support during a difficult time!"CONTACT THEM VIA

EMAIL:jetwebhackers @ gmail .com

TELEGRAM: @jetwebhackers

WHATSAPP: ‪+1 (704) 252‑2290‬

You can also contact them for the service below

Western Union/MoneyGram Transfer

*Recover Stolen/Missing Crypto/Funds/Assets

Bank Transfer PayPal / Skrill Transfer Crypto Mining CashApp Transfer Bitcoin Loans
Matt Clark

HOW I RECOVERED MY LOST CRYPTOCURRENCY.
I was introduced to a fraudulent crypto investment scheme around early November 2024. The platform promised easy profits by exploiting price differences in cryptocurrencies across exchanges. They had an app and what seemed like guaranteed strategies, even using ‘AI’ to make trades. I started with $2,000, lured by the daily updates showing how my balance was growing. Everything seemed fine at first, consistent, modest gains. I watched as my account hit $21,700 in just a few weeks which subsequently led me to invest more funds into this platform. But when I tried to withdraw my funds, the problems started. First, there was a withdrawal fee, which I didn’t think much of at the time. But then they requested another fee for exchange commissions, followed by a tax settlement fee. Each time I thought I was one step closer to accessing my money, a new obstacle appeared. I ended up paying nearly $20,000 in fees without ever seeing a cent of my profits. The company eventually went silent on me, and I was left reeling from the loss. I felt ashamed for falling for it, but also furious at how sophisticated the scam had been. After months of research, I found Asore Hack Corporation, a team that specializes in recovering lost digital assets. Thanks to their expert work, they were able to access and recover my funds including all earnings from my portfolio into my bank accounts without trace of any form, and they gave me back a sense of hope in an otherwise hopeless situation. If you’re going through something similar, don’t hesitate to contact Asore Hack Corp. Their team is available to assist you via email, using the address below:
asorehackcorp (@) gmail (.) com

Matt Clark

I got cured miraculously from HPV Virus using herbs by Dr. Guba who sent me some herbal medicines and I used them as instructed within two weeks. Before I knew I was totally healed, I visited my doctor for a medical examination. Behold, I am negative. I introduced this great doctor to a couple of infected friends who also tried the medication and they were cured as well . Please if you have this virus and you have tried so many things or have been deceived severally, here is your final solution for you send him an email via: Drgubahealingherbs@gmail.com or WhatsApp: + 234 816 238 8034 or website: https://drgubahealingherbs.wixsite.com/guba-healing-herbs

Matt Clark

For many people and businesses, navigating the frequently dangerous landscape of financial loss can be an intimidating and overwhelming process. Nevertheless, the knowledgeable staff at Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech provides a ray of hope and direction with their indispensable range of services. Their offerings are based on a profound grasp of the far-reaching and terrible effects that financial setbacks, whether they be the result of cyberattacks, data breaches, or other unforeseen tragedies, can have. Their highly-trained analysts work tirelessly to assess the scope of the damage, identifying the root causes and developing tailored strategies to mitigate the fallout. From recovering lost or corrupted data to restoring compromised systems and securing networks, Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech employs the latest cutting-edge technologies and industry best practices to help clients regain their financial footing. But their support goes beyond the technical realm, as their compassionate case managers provide a empathetic ear and practical advice to navigate the emotional and logistical challenges that often accompany financial upheaval. With a steadfast commitment to client success, Wizard Hilton Cyber Tech is a trusted partner in weathering the storm of financial loss, offering the essential services and peace of mind needed to emerge stronger and more resilient than before. Call; Email : wizardhiltoncybertech ( @ ) gmail (. ) com    
OR
support ( @ ) wizardhiltoncybertech (.) com

WhatsApp number +13024457895

Matt Clark

I got cured miraculously from HPV Virus using herbs by Dr. Guba who sent me some herbal medicines and I used them as instructed within two weeks. Before I knew I was totally healed, I visited my doctor for a medical examination. Behold, I am negative. I introduced this great doctor to a couple of infected friends who also tried the medication and they were cured as well . Please if you have this virus and you have tried so many things or have been deceived severally, here is your final solution for you send him an email via: Drgubahealingherbs@gmail.com or WhatsApp: + 234 816 238 8034 or website: https://drgubahealingherbs.wixsite.com/guba-healing-herbs

Matt Clark

I got cured miraculously from HPV Virus using herbs by Dr. Guba who sent me some herbal medicines and I used them as instructed within two weeks. Before I knew I was totally healed, I visited my doctor for a medical examination. Behold, I am negative. I introduced this great doctor to a couple of infected friends who also tried the medication and they were cured as well . Please if you have this virus and you have tried so many things or have been deceived severally, here is your final solution for you send him an email via: Drgubahealingherbs@gmail.com or WhatsApp: + 234 816 238 8034 or website: https://drgubahealingherbs.wixsite.com/guba-healing-herbs

Matt Clark

How Do l Get My Money From Amazon Lost Recovery masters

The Lost Recovery Masters is a team of experienced Amazon Recovery Experts currently collecting funds back to all Amazon s,c,a,m victims. Anyone that has fallen prey to these fake online imposters and bogus investments Schemes contact Lost Recovery Masters and explain your situation; They will assist you in all Amazon s,c,a,m,s retrieval funds, bitcoin wallets reclaiming, investment s,c,a,m, mobile mass surveillance, and cyber – attacks. Reach out to them through their:

Call/Whatsapp : +44(7-5-3-7-1-0-5-9-2-1)
Email: Support@lostrecoverymasters.com
Website: https://lostrecoverymasters.com/

Matt Clark

How Do l Get My Money From Amazon Lost Recovery masters

The Lost Recovery Masters is a team of experienced Amazon Recovery Experts currently collecting funds back to all Amazon s,c,a,m victims. Anyone that has fallen prey to these fake online imposters and bogus investments Schemes contact Lost Recovery Masters and explain your situation; They will assist you in all Amazon s,c,a,m,s retrieval funds, bitcoin wallets reclaiming, investment s,c,a,m, mobile mass surveillance, and cyber – attacks. Reach out to them through their:

Call/Whatsapp : +44(7-5-3-7-1-0-5-9-2-1)
Email: Support@lostrecoverymasters.com
Website: https://lostrecoverymasters.com/

Matt Clark

HIRE A CERTIFIED CRYPTOCURRENCY RECOVERY COMPANY Visit iFORCE HACKER RECOVERY 

  iForce Hacker Recovery saved me from a terrible $4 million USDT Bitcoin scam. I was tricked into a phony real estate investment using convincing emails and documents, and everything seemed fine until I found out it was all a scam. I went online to search for a hacker and found iForce Hacker Recovery, and their team moved quickly to trace the transactions, find the scammers, and successfully recover my stolen Bitcoin. Their knowledge and unwavering efforts saved me from financial ruin, and I am incredibly appreciative of their professionalism and openness. If you ever become a victim of crypto fraud, iForce Hacker Recovery is the team to trust they are the real deal!  

website;  www. iforcehackersrecovery. c om  
Email; contact@ iforcehackersrecovery . c om
  Contact;  +1240 (803) 3706

Leave a comment