Let's Talk About Love

16-02-09-Lets-Talk-About-Love-FBFor all its fluffy, gushy hoopla, Valentine’s Day is a significant day. Sure, the card/flowers/candy companies have inflated it more than a little, but Valentine’s Day is not merely sentimental. If you’re like me, the day is a mile marker of sorts. When I look back on Valentine’s Day five, ten, or twenty years ago, it’s interesting to reflect on what it meant to me at different stages of my life.

Eight years ago, for example, I sat in a swanky restaurant with a man I had only just met. I thought he was crazy to ask me out so soon—on Valentine’s Day, no less!—but ten months later we would be engaged. Valentine’s Day is now our “first date anniversary.”

Fifteen years ago I was a sophomore in college, and very single. Both of my roommates had serious boyfriends, so they were out having a romantic evening. My night, on the other hand, involved some form of wallowing.

Twenty-five years ago, I was a fourth grader. That year, I wrapped a shoe box in red heart wrapping paper, dotted it with more heart stickers, and cut a hole in the top. I then assembled twenty-four Bugs Bunny Valentine’s cards for the annual card and candy exchange. Back then, I wasn’t concerned about finding a boyfriend so much as gathering a stockpile of candy.

The personal significance of Valentine’s Day changes over the years, and for kids it’s usually quite simple: Valentine’s Day is fun. However, as our kids grow older and Valentine’s Day begins to MEAN something, that significance is accompanied by cultural messages about “love.” As a parent, I want to be a part of that learning process.

In our culture, “romantic love” has a rather self-centered bent to it. Romantic love is supposed to complete us. Marital love is supposed to make us happy. “Love” and “self-fulfillment” are nearly one in the same. In fact, our culture (through books, movies, reality television and more) implies that without romantic love we are somehow incomplete (thank you, Jerry Maguire). In a desperate effort to fill that void, people often justify personal compromise and bad decision-making. Alternatively, “love” can also carry less weight than it should, with people demonstrating flippant relationships like one-night stands and “friends with benefits.”

Before my kids absorb those distorted messages about romantic love, I want to counter those messages with truth, and Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity for those conversations. So, as Valentine’s Day approaches, here are some fun topics for conversation that can help your kids develop a more Christ-like understanding of love. These questions are appropriate for different ages, and they are only the tip of the iceberg, but hopefully they can inspire you, and your family, to go a little deeper with Valentine’s Day:

• Besides romantic love, what other kinds of love are there?

• Is romantic love the most important kind of love? Why or why not?

• In what ways does God show His love for us (1 John 3:16)?

• How can we show our love for God?

• The Bible says to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31). How can you love your friends, or your siblings, as yourself?

• Jesus also teaches us to love our enemies (Matthew 5:44)? Who are the hard people in your life, and how do you think you can love them?

• The Bible says it is not enough to love people with our words, but to SHOW them our love (1 John 3:18). Why do think your actions are more powerful than your words?

In John 13:35, Jesus reminds the disciples that they will be known by their love. In a world of conditional love, cheap love and self-centered love, it’s never too early to start teaching our kids about Jesus’ “different kind of love.” And more importantly, it’s never too late to talk about God’s love for us, and how to bear witness to it. God’s love is a whole lot harder, and much more self-sacrificing, than mushy Valentine’s Day love, but it’s also the only kind of love that is perfect, the only kind of love we were fundamentally created for, and the only kind of love that will actually fulfill us.

I want my kids to know that truth, on Valentine’s Day, and every day.

 


Sharon Hodde Miller is a writer, speaker, pastor's wife, and mom. She is a regular contributor to Her.meneutics, and has also written for Propel, (in)courage, Relevant, Gifted for Leadership, The Gospel Project, and Christianity Today. To read more of her writing, visit her blog at SheWorships.com.

 

JT-blog-banner-2

Related Posts

Matt Clark

Comments

Matt Clark

Fallen A Victim Of A Crypto Scam? – Recover Your Funds Right Now

Wassup Folks,
I genuinely hope this finds you well.
I wanted to share some wonderful news with you today: with the assistance of Recovery Nerds, I just recovered my lost Crypto worth $174,000 that was stolen by scammers. It all started earlier last month, when I received an email from a stranger advertising a bogus Bitcoin investment opportunity. I fell for his fake promises and invested with the company. Fortunately, with the assistance of Recovery Nerds, I was able to detect the fraud before it was too late. The Expert was able to retrieve the funds promptly and efficiently, and I am truly grateful for His knowledge and assistance. If you ever find yourself in a scenario like this, I highly suggest mailus @ recoverynerds . com. WEBSITE: recoverynerds . com The Expert’s assistance was crucial.
WhatsApp; +1 (5,1,4,3,1,2,2,8,0,3,

Best regards

Matt Clark

If you’re not familiar with cryptocurrency trading, I strongly advise you to either stay away from it completely or invest very cautiously. I was forced to invest a significant amount of my life savings on a forex platform to increase my profits, but I ultimately lost roughly 95,000 USD to this investment scam. I was not allowed to take my money out after I had invested and made a profit. I sent a letter to customer service, but it was ineffective, so I realized I had been duped. I was fortunate enough to come across a genuine deal retrieval WEB WIZARD after much looking for ways to acquire assistance. I decided to give it a shot and explained my condition to them. they gave me their word that they would help me get my money back. Honestly, they performed a fantastic job, and my money was recovered in my wallet in less than 24 hours without any upfront payment. I appreciate having encountered WEB WIZARD with such exceptional abilities, it’s truly remarkable.
TELEGRAM: @BestwebwizardRecovery
WHATSAPP: +1(410) 202-1161
EMAIL: bestwebwizardrecovery@consultant.com
OR: info@bestwebwizrecovery.com
WEBSITE: https://bestwebwizrecovery.com/

Matt Clark

COMPANY TO RECOVER CRYPTO AFTER SCAM / GO TO CAPTAIN WEBGENESIS.

Prominent blockchain analysis firm Captain WebGenesis is renowned for its cutting-edge instruments and proficiency in monitoring cryptocurrency transactions. Captain WebGenesis, often utilized by scam victims , is an expert in tracking down misplaced or stolen digital assets and detecting illegal activity. Their strong forensic capabilities analyze blockchain data to recover stolen crypto and offer clients clear recovery alternatives and legal remedies. Since Captain WebGenesis has proven to be a professional and successful crypto recovery case, the team has gained global trust. Contact Below;
 Homepage; Captainwebgenesis .c om
Call or Text +1 (501, 436 (9362
 Mail; Captainwebgenesis@hackermail . c om

Matt Clark

COMPANY TO RECOVER CRYPTO AFTER SCAM / GO TO CAPTAIN WEBGENESIS.

Prominent blockchain analysis firm Captain WebGenesis is renowned for its cutting-edge instruments and proficiency in monitoring cryptocurrency transactions. Captain WebGenesis, often utilized by scam victims , is an expert in tracking down misplaced or stolen digital assets and detecting illegal activity. Their strong forensic capabilities analyze blockchain data to recover stolen crypto and offer clients clear recovery alternatives and legal remedies. Since Captain WebGenesis has proven to be a professional and successful crypto recovery case, the team has gained global trust. Contact Below;
 Homepage; Captainwebgenesis .c om
Call or Text +1 (501, 436 (9362
 Mail; Captainwebgenesis@hackermail . c om

Matt Clark

Recover lost cryptocurrency investment and scam viticms contact for funds recovery

I still can’t believe it. I was a victim of an online scam and lost a significant amount of money. It was a dark time for me, and I felt hopeless. But then, I discovered A1 wizard Hackes Recovery company, and my life changed forever. I’ll never forget the day I received that email from what seemed like a legitimate investment company. They promised me high returns with minimal risk, and I fell for it. Before I knew it, I had transferred thousands of dollars to their account. But soon, the emails stopped coming, and I realized I had been scammed. The guilt, shame, and frustration were overwhelming. In desperation, I searched online for help and found A1 wizard Hackes Recovery company. Their reputation and reviews convinced me to give them a chance.A1 wizard Hackes Recovery company worked actively to track down the scammers and successfully recovered my stolen funds, I was overjoyed and relieved to have my money back. The weight lifted off my shoulders, and I finally felt like myself again. Recovering from an online scam is not easy, but A1 wizard Hackes Recovery company made it possible for me. Their expertise, dedication, and compassion gave me hope when all seemed lost. If you’re a victim of online crypto fraud like I was, don’t lose Hope. A1 wizard Hackes Recovery company is here to help you recover your stolen crypto money and your peace of mind.A1 wizard Hackes Recovery company is more than just a company; they’re a lifeline for those who have been victimized by scammers. You can contact them with the info below.

E-mail : A1wizardhackes@cyberservices.com
whatsssApp : +1 678 439 9760
Telegram : @ A1wizardhackes
website : a1wizardhackes . com

Matt Clark

It gladdens my heart to be out here to say a word of thank you to Dr Isikolo.  
I never thought I would be able to see my marriage work again despite the fact that everything had already been working against me, Dr Isikolo came to my rescue. I had a problem in my home which made my husband left and I was already pregnant and it became difficult for me to cope without him in my life. His family supported me all along but no one could help reunite us back except Dr Isikolo who responded at the time I needed help the most. He got the problem fixed and my husband returned back home to me just after 48 hours because he was still living in the same city with me. It quite amazing when you find help where you least thought you can get help. Once again thank you Dr Isikolo for all you do to help people in dire need of assistance. Email him isikolosolutionhome@gmail.com

Matt Clark

After falling prey to a fraudulent Investment Scheme, I was a bit novice and nervous wreck about Crypto recovery services as I didn’t have a clue. But With CYBER RECOVERY WEB help and guidance, I am now very confident and clued that lost funds can be recovered. Immediately I got to know about CYBER RECOVERY WEB , I filed my case through. I can not say enough on how relaxed the team made me feel from their professionalism and honesty during the whole recovery process till I got all my lost funds back. I would have no hesitation in making further recommendations to your services to victims who have fallen prey too. Keep up the good work CYBER RECOVERY WEB..For More information kindly get back to them via email below :
Email: Cyberrecoveryweb@mail.com
Telegram: @Cyberrecoveryweb
Whatsapp: +1(442)2892816

Matt Clark

METHODS FOR FINDING AND RETRIEVING STOLEN BTC/ETH. // ULTIMATE HACKER JERRY.
In addition to being a financial controller, Ultimate Hacker Jerry is also a private investigator and expert in money recovery. Perform well in situations like cryptocurrency recovery, ethical hacking, phony investment schemes, and so forth. He is an expert in credit restoration and evaluates the factors influencing your credit score. Ultimate Hacker Jerry includes every computer software needed to finish Recoveries from beginning to end.
Use the email address below to get in touch with The Ultimate  Hacker Jerry team as soon as possible to get started.  Their website; www. ultimatehackarjerry. co m 
E-Mail; contact@ ultimatehackarjerry .c om 
Text /Call / Whasp ; + 1 (458) 308 (08 25  

Matt Clark

The Brunoe Quick Hack: Your Ally in the Quest for Lost Bitcoin

When the unthinkable happens and your precious Bitcoin somehow slips through your fingers, vanishing into the vast, unforgiving digital ether, it can feel hopeless. But fear not, for the Brunoe Quick Hack is here to be your steadfast companion on the daunting journey to recover those lost crypto riches. This ingenious, meticulously crafted tool is the product of years of research, coding, and experimentation by blockchain security experts who understand the high-stakes, nail-biting panic of misplacing your Bitcoin. The Brunoe Quick Hack leverages advanced cryptographic techniques and machine learning algorithms to comb through the blockchain, leaving no digital stone unturned in pursuing your missing coins. With an intuitive user interface and lightning-fast processing power, this remarkable software empowers even crypto novices to take their recovery efforts into their own hands, leaving no avenue unexplored in the quest to resurrect their lost Bitcoin holdings. Whether you accidentally sent your funds to the wrong wallet address, fell victim to a devious hacking scheme, or simply can’t locate your private keys, the Brunoe Quick Hack is an invaluable ally ready to spring into action and restore your financial security. So don’t lose hope when the unthinkable happens – let this revolutionary tool guide you through the blockchain’s labyrinth and reclaim what is rightfully yours. For more information, call: WhatsApp: + (1) 70- 57 (842) – 635
Website: Brunoequickhack. COM
Email: Brunoequickhack {AT} GMAIL (DOT) COM

Good Day.

Matt Clark

ARE YOU A VICTIM OF INVESTMENT OR NFT SCAM? DO YOU WANT TO INVESTIGATE A CHEATING SPOUSE? DO YOU DESIRE CREDIT REPAIR (ALL BUREAUS)? SCHEDULE A MEETING WITH AN ETHICAL HACKER ASAP TO GET STARTED.

Let us show you the art of Ethical Hacking….!

EMERALD HACKS is a financial regulator, PRIVATE investigation and funds recovery body. We specialize in cases as regards ETHICAL HACKING, CRYPTOCURRENCY, FAKE INVESTMENT SCHEMES and RECOVERY SCAM. We are also experts in CREDIT REPAIR, we analyze what’s impacting your score.
All software tools needed to execute RECOVERIES from start to finish are available in stock.
Kindly NOTE that the available tools does NOT apply to CREDIT FIX.

Be ALERT to FALSE reviews and testimonies on the internet, the authors and perpetrators unite to form a syndicate.

Contact our team as soon as you can via the email address below to book a mail meeting with an ethical hacker.
emeraldhacks (.) org (@) gmail (.) com

Stay Safe out there !iji

Matt Clark

My husband has been frequently deleting all messages for the last couple of days from his phone and he didn’t know i was peeping at him, then i asked him why he was deleting all messages from his phone but he claimed that his phone memory was full and needed more space. Immediately i went in search of a hacker who can get me deleted information and contents from my husband’s phone and luckily for me i came across this reputable hacker call Swift Spy Assets Recovery this hacker got the job done for me and provided me with results and i saw that my husband has been lying to me. He was simply deleting all pictures, call logs, chats and text messages between him and his secret lover so i wont get to see what he has been doing at my back. Thank God for Swift Spy Assets Recovery who are ready to help. I must say am really impressed with the services i got from The hacker Detective and am here to say a very big thank you: contact him on (( swiftrecoveryservice006@gmail .com )) OR SWIFT_HACKING on Telegram

Matt Clark

My husband has been frequently deleting all messages for the last couple of days from his phone and he didn’t know i was peeping at him, then i asked him why he was deleting all messages from his phone but he claimed that his phone memory was full and needed more space. Immediately i went in search of a hacker who can get me deleted information and contents from my husband’s phone and luckily for me i came across this reputable hacker call Swift Spy Assets Recovery this hacker got the job done for me and provided me with results and i saw that my husband has been lying to me. He was simply deleting all pictures, call logs, chats and text messages between him and his secret lover so i wont get to see what he has been doing at my back. Thank God for Swift Spy Assets Recovery who are ready to help. I must say am really impressed with the services i got from The hacker Detective and am here to say a very big thank you: contact him on (( swiftrecoveryservice006@gmail .com )) OR SWIFT_HACKING on Telegram

Matt Clark

How To Find Lost Bitcoins

I was unlucky enough to fall victim to a cryptocurrency scam recently, but OPTIMISTIC HACKER GAIUS outstanding service helped me retrieve most of my lost money. They even provided me with timely updates along the process and assisted me in receiving quick results in a matter of days! Their platform is effective and simple to use! I suggest them to anyone in need of their kind of assistance! Make contact using the following

Website.. https://optimistichackergaius.com
Email.. optimistichackergaius@seznam.cz
WhatsApp +44 7376 740569

Matt Clark

How To Find Lost Bitcoins

I was unlucky enough to fall victim to a cryptocurrency scam recently, but OPTIMISTIC HACKER GAIUS outstanding service helped me retrieve most of my lost money. They even provided me with timely updates along the process and assisted me in receiving quick results in a matter of days! Their platform is effective and simple to use! I suggest them to anyone in need of their kind of assistance! Make contact using the following

Website.. https://optimistichackergaius.com
Email.. optimistichackergaius@seznam.cz
WhatsApp +44 7376 740569

Matt Clark

While i was trading on Bitcoin I unexpectedly lost my $215,000,! I was frustrated and had no idea on how to recover

back my lost funds? I did an extensive research on how to recover stolen Bitcoin funds and I came across several

referrals and Ads that had gotten help from [CYBER ASSETS WIZARD RECOVERY] I made contact and I was actually very

impressed with the service that i got, not only did I recover back my $215,000, I also got back my hacked social

media accounts, If you ever run into such a nerve racking situation don’t stress out just contact them
for all your hacking problems rest assured you will recover everything you lost.

cyberassetswizardrecovery@proton.me
OR TELGRAM https://t.me/hirehackerwizarderrecovery.

Matt Clark

INFORMATIONS

https://cyberspacehackpro0.wixsite.com/cyberspacehackpro

WhatsApp: +1 (659) 217 – 9239

Email: Cyberspacehackpro(@)rescueteam.com

Are you aware that you could be scammed while trying to invest into crypto? If you know this then you will have to do a thorough search before investing your funds into any platform. Crypto Recovery Scam: Desperation has been the major key used by scammers to get into victims, CRYPTO RECOVERY is real but not legal. What is real and not legal has procedures and one can likely fall into imposter hands and end up being scammed, so many reviews about crypto recovery have been posted by scammers who derive joy in seeing their fellow humans in tears. I will solemnly advise everyone to stop searching for crypto recovery agent in a wrong way, they are now so many search words on the internet being used by both real and fake, so therefor a new methods was introduced to connect with a real recovery agent which i myself writing this article has experience it magnificent excellent recovery work well done by CYBERSPACE HACK PRO crypto recovery/other’s General hack service. CYBERSPACE HACK PRO and his team are a great set of hackers team with verified profiles and they have been helpful in resolving scam issues simply with their technology tools and p2p forum union with crypto block, makes it much easier for them to carry out crypto scam funds recovery. My total scammed funds was $4.875,000 canadian dollar’s and I received $3.255 USD, converting that to Canadian dollar’s was greatly profitable and I had no regret for clearing out all the scammer wallet funds with the help of Cyberspacehackpro(@)rescueteam.com

Matt Clark

HOW TO GET YOUR MONEY BACK THROUGH WEB BAILIFF CONTRACTOR
Am a Forex scam victim that i involved in a scam that cost me CHF 300,000, hoping it helps others avoid a similar fate. It all began when I encountered what appeared to be a lucrative opportunity in forex trading. The promise of high returns was too tempting to resist, leading me to invest a significant sum. Initially, everything seemed fine; I made a few small gains that reinforced my belief in the platform’s legitimacy.However, things quickly spiraled downward when I attempted to withdraw my funds. What started as minor withdrawal issues rapidly escalated into a barrage of requests for additional fees, all with little to no explanation. Each time I complied, they concocted new reasons for further delays, continuously asking for more money. It became painfully clear that I was caught in a sophisticated scam designed to extract as much money as possible from unsuspecting investors.Feeling desperate and helpless, I began searching for a solution. During my research, I came across Web Bailiff Contractor. Their name appeared frequently in online forums and reviews, where many individuals shared their success stories in recovering lost funds from scams, including forex trading schemes. The feedback was overwhelmingly positive, prompting me to reach out to them in hopes of a miracle.To my relief, Web Bailiff Contractor responded promptly and professionally. They guided me through the entire recovery process, reassuring me of their solid track record in handling such cases. Within just 48 hours, they managed to recover CHF 290,000—an efficiency and effectiveness that left me amazed.While my experience with Web Bailiff Contractor was a huge relief, it also served as a harsh lesson about the importance of due diligence in investing. Forex trading and other high-risk investments can be fraught with danger, especially if one is not cautious about the platforms they choose. Always verify the legitimacy of a trading platform, be wary of promises that seem too good to be true, and ensure you’re dealing with regulated entities.For anyone facing similar challenges, I strongly recommend seeking professional help rather than trying to navigate the situation alone. Your financial well-being deserves it.

Matt Clark

HOW TO GET YOUR MONEY BACK THROUGH WEB BAILIFF CONTRACTOR
Am a Forex scam victim that i involved in a scam that cost me CHF 300,000, hoping it helps others avoid a similar fate. It all began when I encountered what appeared to be a lucrative opportunity in forex trading. The promise of high returns was too tempting to resist, leading me to invest a significant sum. Initially, everything seemed fine; I made a few small gains that reinforced my belief in the platform’s legitimacy.However, things quickly spiraled downward when I attempted to withdraw my funds. What started as minor withdrawal issues rapidly escalated into a barrage of requests for additional fees, all with little to no explanation. Each time I complied, they concocted new reasons for further delays, continuously asking for more money. It became painfully clear that I was caught in a sophisticated scam designed to extract as much money as possible from unsuspecting investors.Feeling desperate and helpless, I began searching for a solution. During my research, I came across Web Bailiff Contractor. Their name appeared frequently in online forums and reviews, where many individuals shared their success stories in recovering lost funds from scams, including forex trading schemes. The feedback was overwhelmingly positive, prompting me to reach out to them in hopes of a miracle.To my relief, Web Bailiff Contractor responded promptly and professionally. They guided me through the entire recovery process, reassuring me of their solid track record in handling such cases. Within just 48 hours, they managed to recover CHF 290,000—an efficiency and effectiveness that left me amazed.While my experience with Web Bailiff Contractor was a huge relief, it also served as a harsh lesson about the importance of due diligence in investing. Forex trading and other high-risk investments can be fraught with danger, especially if one is not cautious about the platforms they choose. Always verify the legitimacy of a trading platform, be wary of promises that seem too good to be true, and ensure you’re dealing with regulated entities.For anyone facing similar challenges, I strongly recommend seeking professional help rather than trying to navigate the situation alone. Your financial well-being deserves it.

Matt Clark

If one wishes to retrieve cryptocurrency that was obtained through deception, expert guidance must be sought. Hiring a professional hacker like WIZARD JAMES RECOVERY has numerous advantages, one of which is their extensive knowledge of cryptocurrency recovery methods. Because WIZARD JAMES RECOVERY is informed about blockchain technology and cryptocurrency transactions, they can tackle the challenges of recovering misplaced money successfully.
Contact below:
Email address….. (wizardjamesrecovery @ use . com)
WhatsApp….. +4 (4,7,4) 1,8,3 – 6,7,2,0,4
Website….. h tt ps : / / wizardjamesrecovery. com

Matt Clark

INFORMATIONS

https://cyberspacehackpro0.wixsite.com/cyberspacehackpro

WhatsApp: +1 (659) 217 – 9239

Email: Cyberspacehackpro(@)rescueteam.com

Are you aware that you could be scammed while trying to invest into crypto? If you know this then you will have to do a thorough search before investing your funds into any platform. Crypto Recovery Scam: Desperation has been the major key used by scammers to get into victims, CRYPTO RECOVERY is real but not legal. What is real and not legal has procedures and one can likely fall into imposter hands and end up being scammed, so many reviews about crypto recovery have been posted by scammers who derive joy in seeing their fellow humans in tears. I will solemnly advise everyone to stop searching for crypto recovery agent in a wrong way, they are now so many search words on the internet being used by both real and fake, so therefor a new methods was introduced to connect with a real recovery agent which i myself writing this article has experience it magnificent excellent recovery work well done by CYBERSPACE HACK PRO crypto recovery/other’s General hack service. CYBERSPACE HACK PRO and his team are a great set of hackers team with verified profiles and they have been helpful in resolving scam issues simply with their technology tools and p2p forum union with crypto block, makes it much easier for them to carry out crypto scam funds recovery. My total scammed funds was $4.875,000 canadian dollar’s and I received $3.255 USD, converting that to Canadian dollar’s was greatly profitable and I had no regret for clearing out all the scammer wallet funds with the help of Cyberspacehackpro(@)rescueteam.com

Leave a comment