Let's Talk About Love
For all its fluffy, gushy hoopla, Valentine’s Day is a significant day. Sure, the card/flowers/candy companies have inflated it more than a little, but Valentine’s Day is not merely sentimental. If you’re like me, the day is a mile marker of sorts. When I look back on Valentine’s Day five, ten, or twenty years ago, it’s interesting to reflect on what it meant to me at different stages of my life.
Eight years ago, for example, I sat in a swanky restaurant with a man I had only just met. I thought he was crazy to ask me out so soon—on Valentine’s Day, no less!—but ten months later we would be engaged. Valentine’s Day is now our “first date anniversary.”
Fifteen years ago I was a sophomore in college, and very single. Both of my roommates had serious boyfriends, so they were out having a romantic evening. My night, on the other hand, involved some form of wallowing.
Twenty-five years ago, I was a fourth grader. That year, I wrapped a shoe box in red heart wrapping paper, dotted it with more heart stickers, and cut a hole in the top. I then assembled twenty-four Bugs Bunny Valentine’s cards for the annual card and candy exchange. Back then, I wasn’t concerned about finding a boyfriend so much as gathering a stockpile of candy.
The personal significance of Valentine’s Day changes over the years, and for kids it’s usually quite simple: Valentine’s Day is fun. However, as our kids grow older and Valentine’s Day begins to MEAN something, that significance is accompanied by cultural messages about “love.” As a parent, I want to be a part of that learning process.
In our culture, “romantic love” has a rather self-centered bent to it. Romantic love is supposed to complete us. Marital love is supposed to make us happy. “Love” and “self-fulfillment” are nearly one in the same. In fact, our culture (through books, movies, reality television and more) implies that without romantic love we are somehow incomplete (thank you, Jerry Maguire). In a desperate effort to fill that void, people often justify personal compromise and bad decision-making. Alternatively, “love” can also carry less weight than it should, with people demonstrating flippant relationships like one-night stands and “friends with benefits.”
Before my kids absorb those distorted messages about romantic love, I want to counter those messages with truth, and Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity for those conversations. So, as Valentine’s Day approaches, here are some fun topics for conversation that can help your kids develop a more Christ-like understanding of love. These questions are appropriate for different ages, and they are only the tip of the iceberg, but hopefully they can inspire you, and your family, to go a little deeper with Valentine’s Day:
• Besides romantic love, what other kinds of love are there?
• Is romantic love the most important kind of love? Why or why not?
• In what ways does God show His love for us (1 John 3:16)?
• How can we show our love for God?
• The Bible says to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31). How can you love your friends, or your siblings, as yourself?
• Jesus also teaches us to love our enemies (Matthew 5:44)? Who are the hard people in your life, and how do you think you can love them?
• The Bible says it is not enough to love people with our words, but to SHOW them our love (1 John 3:18). Why do think your actions are more powerful than your words?
In John 13:35, Jesus reminds the disciples that they will be known by their love. In a world of conditional love, cheap love and self-centered love, it’s never too early to start teaching our kids about Jesus’ “different kind of love.” And more importantly, it’s never too late to talk about God’s love for us, and how to bear witness to it. God’s love is a whole lot harder, and much more self-sacrificing, than mushy Valentine’s Day love, but it’s also the only kind of love that is perfect, the only kind of love we were fundamentally created for, and the only kind of love that will actually fulfill us.
I want my kids to know that truth, on Valentine’s Day, and every day.
Sharon Hodde Miller is a writer, speaker, pastor's wife, and mom. She is a regular contributor to Her.meneutics, and has also written for Propel, (in)courage, Relevant, Gifted for Leadership, The Gospel Project, and Christianity Today. To read more of her writing, visit her blog at SheWorships.com.
Comments
Being a scam victim can depressing, you were given empty promises. They usually stop replying after achieving their aim with hurts even more, i have been there too as i was too ambitious and wanted financial security which made me invest a huge chunk of my life savings. I never thought i would be getting back a dime back and already lost hope until i contacted a team which was just a leap of faith as i wasn’t going to go down without a fight. CM, a recovery expert that helped me get a significant sum of my investment back. Do not brood alone, make a move too, send a mail to zattechrecovery @ G mail com
I believe that there are individuals who have lost their crypto one way or the other. I strongly advise that you don’t seek help recovering it online because you are likely going to meet a scammer who will steal more of your funds in an attempt to help you recover your lost crypto. I personally have used ZATTPRO RECOVERY when I had to recover my bitcoin stolen by scammers. You can contact this legit recovery firm by email (zattechrecovery @ G mail com)
This is my honest experience.I am open to share my experience with bitcoin investment and losing money to scammers. However, yes it is possible to recover your stolen bitcoins. I never believed in bitcoin recovery because i was made to understand that it was not possible. However, sometime in october i fell for a forex scam which promised overly high returns and i ended up losing close to $70,000. I searched for a month for help until i finally came across an article on reddit in regards to recovering stolen cryptocurrency so i reached out to him at [zattechrecovery [at] gmail com.] I was so scared and skeptical because i have heard of bad experiences but i decided to give them a try and to my greatest surprise i was able to get all my stolen bitcoins recovered from the scammers within a very short time frame. I don’t know if i’m allowed to share the links on here but you can contact if you also need help.
God bless Capital Crypto Recover Services for the marvelous work you did in my life, I have learned the hard way that even the most sensible investors can fall victim to scams. When my USD was stolen, for anyone who has fallen victim to one of the bitcoin binary investment scams that are currently ongoing, I felt betrayal and upset. But then I was reading a post on site when I saw a testimony of Wendy Taylor online who recommended that Capital Crypto Recovery has helped her recover scammed funds within 24 hours. after reaching out to this cyber security firm that was able to help me recover my stolen digital assets and bitcoin. I’m genuinely blown away by their amazing service and professionalism. I never imagined I’d be able to get my money back until I complained to Capital Crypto Recovery Services about my difficulties and gave all of the necessary paperwork. I was astounded that it took them 12 hours to reclaim my stolen money back. Without a doubt, my USDT assets were successfully recovered from the scam platform, Thank you so much Sir, I strongly recommend Capital Crypto Recover for any of your bitcoin recovery, digital funds recovery, hacking, and cybersecurity concerns.
You reach them Call/Text Number +1 (336)390-6684
His Email: Recovercapital@cyberservices.com
Contact Telegram: @Capitalcryptorecover
His website: https://recovercapital.wixsite.com/capital-crypto-rec-1
God bless Capital Crypto Recover Services for the marvelous work you did in my life, I have learned the hard way that even the most sensible investors can fall victim to scams. When my USD was stolen, for anyone who has fallen victim to one of the bitcoin binary investment scams that are currently ongoing, I felt betrayal and upset. But then I was reading a post on site when I saw a testimony of Wendy Taylor online who recommended that Capital Crypto Recovery has helped her recover scammed funds within 24 hours. after reaching out to this cyber security firm that was able to help me recover my stolen digital assets and bitcoin. I’m genuinely blown away by their amazing service and professionalism. I never imagined I’d be able to get my money back until I complained to Capital Crypto Recovery Services about my difficulties and gave all of the necessary paperwork. I was astounded that it took them 12 hours to reclaim my stolen money back. Without a doubt, my USDT assets were successfully recovered from the scam platform, Thank you so much Sir, I strongly recommend Capital Crypto Recover for any of your bitcoin recovery, digital funds recovery, hacking, and cybersecurity concerns.
You reach them Call/Text Number +1 (336)390-6684
His Email: Recovercapital@cyberservices.com
Contact Telegram: @Capitalcryptorecover
His website: https://recovercapital.wixsite.com/capital-crypto-rec-1
LORD MEDUZA IS THE BEST SPELL CASTER ONLINE
It’s an honor to share my testimony with the world. You merit all the accolades that mention you. Lord Meduza has been a gift to me since our meeting online. He is the only one that knows everything about creating spells. I adore him immensely for his kindness, compassion, integrity, and the support he offers to everyone who interacts with him. Without Lord Meduza, I wouldn’t have survived this difficult situation. His magic turned me into a Lottery winner of £177 Million Pounds, transforming my entire life into something beautiful and extraordinary. The numbers he provided for the lottery were transformative, elevating me from grass to grace, and I want to express my eternal gratitude to him. Thank you, sir, for being a source of help to those in need. Anyone who reads this article and requires assistance can reach him through his Email: lordmeduzatemple@hotmail.com or WhatsApp +1 8 0 7 9 0 7 2 6 8 7 as he is unmatched in spells crafting.
I’m so excited my broken Marriage been restored. My ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to meet Dr Gerald and how he helped many people to bring their lover back so I contacted him to help me too. That was how Dr Gerald helped me to bring my lover back. A big thank you to Dr Gerald because I never thought my ex lover would be back to me so quickly with your spell. You are the best and the world greatest. If you are here and you need your Ex Lover back or your lover moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact:
Email: psychicspiritualrealm@gmail.com
WhatsApp: +14242983869
Facebook Page: https://facebook.com/Psychicspiritualrealm
I’m so excited my broken Marriage been restored. My ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to meet Dr Gerald and how he helped many people to bring their lover back so I contacted him to help me too. That was how Dr Gerald helped me to bring my lover back. A big thank you to Dr Gerald because I never thought my ex lover would be back to me so quickly with your spell. You are the best and the world greatest. If you are here and you need your Ex Lover back or your lover moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact:
Email: psychicspiritualrealm@gmail.com
WhatsApp: +14242983869
Facebook Page: https://facebook.com/Psychicspiritualrealm
LORD MEDUZA IS THE BEST SPELL CASTER ONLINE
It’s an honor to share my testimony with the world. You merit all the accolades that mention you. Lord Meduza has been a gift to me since our meeting online. He is the only one that knows everything about creating spells. I adore him immensely for his kindness, compassion, integrity, and the support he offers to everyone who interacts with him. Without Lord Meduza, I wouldn’t have survived this difficult situation. His magic turned me into a Lottery winner of £177 Million Pounds, transforming my entire life into something beautiful and extraordinary. The numbers he provided for the lottery were transformative, elevating me from grass to grace, and I want to express my eternal gratitude to him. Thank you, sir, for being a source of help to those in need. Anyone who reads this article and requires assistance can reach him through his Email: lordmeduzatemple@hotmail.com or WhatsApp +1 8 0 7 9 0 7 2 6 8 7 as he is unmatched in spells crafting.
I sincerely appreciate the help provided by WIZARD JAMES RECOVERY in recovering my cryptocurrency. I had lost all of my life’s savings after falling victim to a fraudulent investment organization. I was distraught and didn’t know what to do. I discovered WIZARD JAMES RECOVERY after doing some internet research. They have an excellent reputation and have helped many customers recover their stolen bitcoin. I am glad I tried them out. The personnel at WIZARD JAMES RECOVERY was very knowledgeable and helpful. Throughout their journey, they kept me updated and provided me with a detailed explanation of the recovery process. All of my bitcoin accounts were recovered using the WIZARD JAMES RECOVERY. With deep appreciation, I thank the Wizard James Recovery.
You can get in touch with them at email : wizardjamesrecovery@usa.com OR WHATSAPP: +44 7418 367 204 if you’ve also misplaced your cryptocurrency wallet, forgotten your password, or had your phone compromised.
HOW TO HIRE A HACKER TO RECOVER STOLEN BITCOIN. CONSULT FASTFUND RECOVERY.
Now, let’s take a closer look at a real-life case where FASTFUND RECOVERY { Fastfundrecovery8 @ gmail dot com } worked their magic and successfully recovered my stolen Bitcoin. Through thorough investigation, collaboration with me, and the clever utilization of their tools and expertise, they were able to track down my stolen funds and return them to my wallet. It’s a story of triumph over cybercrime that will leave you in awe. FASTFUND RECOVERY understands the frustration and emotional toll that comes with losing hard-earned assets, which is why they prioritize open communication and involve their clients every step of the way. By keeping the lines of communication open and working closely with those affected, they ensure a smoother and more successful recovery process and there you have it – the awe-inspiring tale of stolen Bitcoin and FASTFUND RECOVERY incredible ability to turn the tide of cyber theft. So, when you find yourself in a cryptocurrency theft, remember that there are dedicated professionals out there, armed with skills and a touch of magic, ready to help you reclaim what’s rightfully yours. FASTFUND RECOVERY can also be reached via Whats- app: +1 807 – 5 0 0 – 7,5,5,4
Crypto Consulting Recovery Experts Lost Recovery Masters
Lost Recovery Masters centers its expertise on financial fraud and ethical hacking services, focusing much of its resources in fighting binary options scams, a pervasive threat to individual investors and financial institutions alike. With a proven track record of success and a commitment to transparency, Lost Recovery Masters provides personalized support throughout the recovery process, keeping clients informed every step of the way.
Contact details:
Email: Support@lostrecoverymasters.com
Website: https://lostrecoverymasters.com/
Whatsapp +4(475)371-05921
Crypto Consulting Recovery Experts Lost Recovery Masters
Lost Recovery Masters centers its expertise on financial fraud and ethical hacking services, focusing much of its resources in fighting binary options scams, a pervasive threat to individual investors and financial institutions alike. With a proven track record of success and a commitment to transparency, Lost Recovery Masters provides personalized support throughout the recovery process, keeping clients informed every step of the way.
Contact details:
Email: Support@lostrecoverymasters.com
Website: https://lostrecoverymasters.com/
Whatsapp +4(475)371-05921
Crypto Consulting Recovery Experts Lost Recovery Masters
Lost Recovery Masters centers its expertise on financial fraud and ethical hacking services, focusing much of its resources in fighting binary options scams, a pervasive threat to individual investors and financial institutions alike. With a proven track record of success and a commitment to transparency, Lost Recovery Masters provides personalized support throughout the recovery process, keeping clients informed every step of the way.
Contact details:
Email: Support@lostrecoverymasters.com
Website: https://lostrecoverymasters.com/
Whatsapp +4(475)371-05921
THE ONLY TRUSTED AND RELIABLE RECOVER HACKER // THE HACK ANGELS
I’m here to bring you good news about THE HACK ANGELS. I lost $700,000 worth of Crypto to a fraudulent investment platform, due to the promises of high returns and I was left feeling helpless and frustrated. It was a painful experience, and I felt like I had no options left. I began looking for a genuine crypto recovery agent who could assist me retrieve my lost crypto. I searched the web to find legitimate and genuine assets recovery. After several searches I found THE HACK ANGELS. Cryptocurrency recovery specialists. I’m truly thankful for their help in recovering all I lost. If you need their service too, here is their contact information.
Email: support@thehackangels.com
Website at www.thehackangels.com
WhatsApp +1(520)200-2320
On April 22, 2025 — my birthday — I became the victim of a devastating cryptocurrency scam. What should have been a joyful day turned into a nightmare. But the scam didn’t start then; it began months earlier when I connected with someone on Facebook who claimed to be a professional crypto broker.
They were friendly, knowledgeable, and convincing. Over time, they built my trust by sharing “insights,” screenshots of fake profits, and promises of financial freedom. Eventually, I invested $100,000 in USDC through a platform they recommended.
At first, everything seemed legitimate. I was able to make small withdrawals, which gave me a false sense of security. But on my birthday, when I tried to withdraw funds to celebrate, I was locked out. The platform blamed “technical issues” and “maintenance,” but days passed with no resolution. That’s when I realized I had been scammed.
The emotional toll was overwhelming — betrayal, regret, and heartbreak. Still, I refused to give up. In my search for help, I discovered Asset Rescue Specialist. From the first moment, they were professional, empathetic, and transparent. They explained their process in detail, using blockchain analysis and cyber forensics to track the stolen funds.
Throughout the process, they kept me informed, answered every question, and gave me hope when I needed it most. Incredibly, they succeeded — they recovered my lost funds.
Thanks to Asset Rescue Specialist, what began as the worst birthday of my life turned into a story of resilience and redemption. They not only restored my finances but also my faith. If you’ve fallen victim to crypto fraud, I highly recommend them. They don’t make empty promises — they deliver results.
DM FOR MORE DETAILS:
WhatsApp:+ 1 9 0 3 5 5 9 1 7 3 3.
mail: assetrescuespecialist@qualityservice.com
support@assetrescuespecialist.com.
God bless Dr Guba for his marvelous work in my life, I was diagnosed of Herpes simplex virus (HSV) since 2014 and I was taking my medications, I wasn’t satisfied I needed to get the Herpes simplex virus (HSV) out of my system, I did a researched about some possible cure for Herpes simplex virus (HSV) I saw a comment about Dr Guba , how he cured Herpes simplex virus (HSV) with his herbal medicine, I contacted him and he guided me. I asked for solutions, he started the remedy for my health, he sent me the medicine through UPS SPEED POST. I took the medicine as prescribed by Dr Guba and 7 days later I was totally cured from Herpes simplex virus (HSV) . Thank you Dr Guba , get in touch with him too an email via: Drgubahealingherbs@gmail.com or WhatsApp: + 234 816 238 8034 or website: https://drgubahealingherbs.wixsite.com/guba-healing-herbs
God bless Dr Guba for his marvelous work in my life, I was diagnosed of Herpes simplex virus (HSV) since 2014 and I was taking my medications, I wasn’t satisfied I needed to get the Herpes simplex virus (HSV) out of my system, I did a researched about some possible cure for Herpes simplex virus (HSV) I saw a comment about Dr Guba , how he cured Herpes simplex virus (HSV) with his herbal medicine, I contacted him and he guided me. I asked for solutions, he started the remedy for my health, he sent me the medicine through UPS SPEED POST. I took the medicine as prescribed by Dr Guba and 7 days later I was totally cured from Herpes simplex virus (HSV) . Thank you Dr Guba , get in touch with him too an email via: Drgubahealingherbs@gmail.com or WhatsApp: + 234 816 238 8034 or website: https://drgubahealingherbs.wixsite.com/guba-healing-herbs
There are a lot of untrue recommendations and its hard to tell who is legit. If you have lost money to scam contact (Zattechrecovery (@) Gmail com) they will surely help you out. Took me long to find them.
I was so lucky to win the $1 million prize in the lottery. I have been playing the powerball lottery for about 20 years, and i didn’t win any big amount until Dr. Lucas helped me with his spiritual winning numbers, I thought it was all fake until he gave me the numbers and directed me on how to play. He gave me assurance that I was going to win and asked me to give him 48 hours to finish his work, which I did. The third day, he gave me the numbers and gave me instructions on how to play, and luckily, I won. I want to let everyone who is reading this to know that this spell really works and you can also be a winner if you give it a try to see for yourself. The moment you contact Dr Lucas for help is the end of suffering in your life, he has been helping people around the world and I’m happy that I’m among those who has benefited from his great work he’s doing, you can reach him if you really want to win the lottery Email: Drlucasspelltemple@gmail.com Or WhatsApp +234 904 794 3567 Thank You .. .
I was so lucky to win the $1 million prize in the lottery. I have been playing the powerball lottery for about 20 years, and i didn’t win any big amount until Dr. Lucas helped me with his spiritual winning numbers, I thought it was all fake until he gave me the numbers and directed me on how to play. He gave me assurance that I was going to win and asked me to give him 48 hours to finish his work, which I did. The third day, he gave me the numbers and gave me instructions on how to play, and luckily, I won. I want to let everyone who is reading this to know that this spell really works and you can also be a winner if you give it a try to see for yourself. The moment you contact Dr Lucas for help is the end of suffering in your life, he has been helping people around the world and I’m happy that I’m among those who has benefited from his great work he’s doing, you can reach him if you really want to win the lottery Email : Drlucasspelltemple@gmail.com Or WhatsApp +234 904 794 3567 Thank You